I feel compelled to blog today. I am not totally sure why....but I do.
All I really have is scattered thoughts, so this may not be worth it to you to read, but writing is satisfying to me.
I think almost constantly about my future family. As I date and meet various young men, I think about how there has to be someone out there who is perfect for me....Perfect? Of course not, but perfect for me? There has to be. The more young men I meet, the more convinced I become that there is someone out there for me who has the potential to be the person I need and I will be the same way for him. I have given much thought over the past couple of years to the possibility of serving a mission for the LDS Church. As I have thought this, though my soul wants to serve, there is something within me that cannot go. There is this feeling within me that has held me back, a feeling that I can't stop dating for a year and a half, and even a feeling that though no blessing would be withheld from me if I went on a mission, I may miss out on someone I would not want to miss out on if I went. (I promise I'm not making that up. That feeling has come from divine inspiration.) I trust completely in the Lord's timing. I know He will lead me to the right person and the right places at the right times. I know He will take care of me and that He has prepared a young man for me who wants the same kind of marriage and life that I do, who has hoped and planned and worked for a loving marriage and family, who has kept himself clean from the evils of this world, and who is deeply devoted to the Gospel of Jesus Christ. I wish we could all understand that there is never any need to settle for someone who is not the kind of person we wish to be with. The Lord doesn't ever ask us to settle. He just asks us to be patient. He will lead us to where we want to go if we will ask Him and stay close to Him.
If you are LDS, I hope you know of the power found in the holy temples. Go there. Life changes when I go. I change when I go. Everything changes when I go.
One of my favorite hymns is "Where Can I Turn For Peace?" I love ALL of the verses.
"Where can I turn for peace? Where is my solace? When other sources cease to make me whole. Where with a wounded heart, anger or malice, I draw myself apart searching my soul.
Where, with my aching heart, where when I languish, where, in my need to know, where can I run? Where is the quiet hand to calm my anguish? Who, who can understand? He, only one.
He answers privately, reaches my reaching. In my Gethsemane Savior and Friend. Gentle the peace He finds for my beseeching. Constant He is, and kind, love without end."
One of my favorite songs lately is this one ...two of the most comforting hymns ever, combined. I also love this song of hers. I just love how motherly it is. I think I just love everything motherly.
I have the opportunity to teach institute in my stake of young single adults right now. Teaching the gospel in this capacity humbles me and reminds me how much I love getting to share my feelings about the gospel. I feel so much joy and excitement every week as I study the lessons. I feel so blessed and I feel that, in a way, it is a compensating blessing of my not being meant to go on a mission.
Yesterday, my mom asked me if I'd had any good thoughts about suffering in my down time the last couple days. Let me back up. I had a gum graft done in my mouth. I didn't think it was going to be that big of a deal, but it has been far more miserable than I had expected. Having a somewhat compromised body anyway, anything extra usually knocks me out for a few days. I've pretty much just been laying in my bed since Thursday afternoon. So, back to my mom's question ..... I told her that I hadn't. In fact, I told her I hadn't been thinking about the suffering. I had put other things into my brain. Things of laughter, of humor, of light-heartedness and relaxation. Odd as it may sound, this was significant to me. I've had a lot of physical pain and discomfort and sickness in the last several years, and have had much cause to contemplate suffering. There have been some deeply poignant moments in those times and a lot of learning has taken place. However, I feel grateful that recently I do not seem to have to go as deep emotionally with suffering. Suffering is an essential part of this life. It has the ability to soften us and to help us understand what is really important. However, I think there may be a larger place for not focusing on our suffering. When we suffer, we need not pause to think deeply about every pain we are experiencing. The Lord would have us continue on in joy, no matter what is happening. I feel that this understanding may have come to me recently....That even though I may be suffering, I don't have to stay in the suffering. I don't have to dwell on it, even if my dwelling is not a negative thing. I used to focus a lot on the suffering. The more I have suffered however, the more I have learned to distract myself from it with joyful things and the hope that this too will pass. My mom told me that she once had the impression "Don't go too deep with any trial." I have a testimony that there is joy to be found even in uncomfortable and painful situations. We can learn from every trial, but we need not be paralyzed by it or delve too deeply into them. What we need from them will come to us if we are seeking the Lord's will in our life. We can have hope and joy even as we pass through them because of our Savior, Jesus Christ.
Last, I really love lullabies. I think that, again, it is because I so deeply love being a woman and the feelings that accompany that divine gender role for me...I love all things soft and sweet and tender and encouraging. This one is so cute. The same artist also has a couple others that I love here and here. And one of my favorite Christian artists wrote this one and I love it. Get ready for warm fuzzies.
Sunday, May 26, 2013
Saturday, April 27, 2013
"The Clouds Ye So Much Dread"
I hope that if you ever read any of my blog posts, you will read this one.
Because this one is about some of the biggest pieces of my heart and life that I have ever written about.
I love the hymns of the LDS Church. The whole basis of this post comes from the hymn called "God Moves in a Mysterious Way." I discovered this hymn several years ago and it has been one of my favorites ever since. One verse in particular has stuck with me and ministered to my spirit over and over again. It says:
"Ye fearful saints
Fresh courage take
The clouds ye so much dread
Are big with mercy and shall break
In blessings on your head."
This verse first comforted me about an anxiety/phobia issue that I dealt with quite severely as a teenager. It gave me strength to know that my fears weren't as bad as they may have seemed to me. These words would resurface often in my mind during difficult times and comfort me over the next several years.
A couple months ago, we sang this hymn in sacrament meeting after a talk that had brought up something close to my heart - something painful. I wondered at how I could overcome it, and how I could get through it and the larger implications it seemed to have in my life. It seemed so big, so full of bad things. Then we sang this hymn, and when we got to this verse I knew the Lord was speaking to me. I knew He was telling me that this trial that looked like such a big dark storm cloud was in fact full of blessings because of the way He can turn all things to our good.
Later, I was further enlightened by thinking about how storm clouds become dark when they become full of moisture and then it rains because they are so full they can't hold the moisture anymore. Rain is often looked at negatively, and we often compare trials to rain (even though a lot of people love rain - I don't know exactly where that comparison began). That being so, the meaning of this verse became more apparent: The cloud becomes heavy and full and looks dark and foreboding to us. We cover our heads in fear of what the rain will bring down because all we see is the darkness of the clouds and we think that only cold, sorrowful rain is going to fall on us...
BUT....This verse of song is telling us that the reason the cloud has to break is because it so full, not of hardship, but of mercy. It is so full of love, of growth, and of blessings that it cannot even contain them and so it breaks. Sometimes it is hard for us to see the mercy in our trials, but I believe they are there...Abundantly.
A couple weeks ago, I was talking with my mom about our neighbor who has been suffering from cancer for 3 years. He now has a beautiful young family and a heartbreaking diagnosis. We love him and have learned so much from his example. As we were talking, part of our own family's story came up. I am the youngest of 7 children - Two brothers, followed by a sister, followed by three more brothers, and then me. The brother just older than me passed away at 14 months old in an accident in our driveway.
My parents have treated this trial in an amazing way. My mother, particularly has taught me the truths of the Plan of Salvation with total faith and no bitterness about/from that experience. As we talked the other night and I shared with her my favorite line from this hymn, I had an "ah-ha!" moment as I realized that the power of my mother's testimony to me throughout my life has come from knowing that she lost a child just two and a half years before I was born. She taught me closely and carefully and constantly about Jesus Christ and about how because of what He did we would be together with our Andrew again. Everything she has taught me throughout my life and her life has sunk so deeply into me because I knew she wasn't just saying it, and I knew that she didn't just know it-- she had lived it and experienced it. The Atonement had cleansed her of any chance for bitterness or anger and had made her heart soft to receive all the truth, love, faith, and learning that can come from such a profound experience. I saw in that moment just one of the many ways that the cloud of my brother's death was full of mercy. I knew that my mother's testimony was so solid and so true and so authentic because of this experience and because it happened just before I came into our family, it was fresh with her and so she was teaching me with all of her learning from this experience from day one of my mortal life. I know she had a stalwart testimony before that, but I am confident that one of the reasons her testimony has always been so real to me is because she carries no bitterness from that experience and because of how she has always used it as an opportunity to testify to me of God's truths. For me, that cloud broke with mercy and blessings.
I had so much peace and hope as I thought about our neighbors and how this trial for my family has been such a blessing in so many ways (for those who have chosen to look for the blessings in it). I knew that all would be well for them and that this trial, too, is a cloud full of mercy and will break in blessings on their heads.
These things often tear at me on an hourly basis, sometimes a momentary basis. However, my purpose of this post is to let you know that I believe in Jesus Christ. I believe in His Atonement. I believe in His healing. I believe in His ability to turn all things for our good. I believe that there is mercy in each of our trials and that though this life presents many challenges, that He equips us with all we need to get through it safely and with a whole heart. I have found most of the time, that we can be just about as whole as we want to be if we will turn to Him. I believe in His mercy, I believe that He is the silver lining in every cloud and that the opportunity to come closer to Him and to believe more deeply in His promises and His truths is how He offers us mercy through our trials. How I love Him and how I praise Him for all His goodness and love!
If you've read all this and have gotten to this point, I hope that you will reflect on the clouds in your life that may be offering you mercies which you have not yet claimed.
"God moves in a mysterious way, His wonders to perform. He plants his footsteps in the sea and rides upon the storm. Ye fearful saints, fresh courage take. The clouds ye so much dread are big with mercy and shall break in blessings on your head. His purposes will ripen fast, unfolding every hour. The bud may have a bitter taste, but sweet will be the flower."
Because this one is about some of the biggest pieces of my heart and life that I have ever written about.
I love the hymns of the LDS Church. The whole basis of this post comes from the hymn called "God Moves in a Mysterious Way." I discovered this hymn several years ago and it has been one of my favorites ever since. One verse in particular has stuck with me and ministered to my spirit over and over again. It says:
"Ye fearful saints
Fresh courage take
The clouds ye so much dread
Are big with mercy and shall break
In blessings on your head."
This verse first comforted me about an anxiety/phobia issue that I dealt with quite severely as a teenager. It gave me strength to know that my fears weren't as bad as they may have seemed to me. These words would resurface often in my mind during difficult times and comfort me over the next several years.
A couple months ago, we sang this hymn in sacrament meeting after a talk that had brought up something close to my heart - something painful. I wondered at how I could overcome it, and how I could get through it and the larger implications it seemed to have in my life. It seemed so big, so full of bad things. Then we sang this hymn, and when we got to this verse I knew the Lord was speaking to me. I knew He was telling me that this trial that looked like such a big dark storm cloud was in fact full of blessings because of the way He can turn all things to our good.
Later, I was further enlightened by thinking about how storm clouds become dark when they become full of moisture and then it rains because they are so full they can't hold the moisture anymore. Rain is often looked at negatively, and we often compare trials to rain (even though a lot of people love rain - I don't know exactly where that comparison began). That being so, the meaning of this verse became more apparent: The cloud becomes heavy and full and looks dark and foreboding to us. We cover our heads in fear of what the rain will bring down because all we see is the darkness of the clouds and we think that only cold, sorrowful rain is going to fall on us...
BUT....This verse of song is telling us that the reason the cloud has to break is because it so full, not of hardship, but of mercy. It is so full of love, of growth, and of blessings that it cannot even contain them and so it breaks. Sometimes it is hard for us to see the mercy in our trials, but I believe they are there...Abundantly.
A couple weeks ago, I was talking with my mom about our neighbor who has been suffering from cancer for 3 years. He now has a beautiful young family and a heartbreaking diagnosis. We love him and have learned so much from his example. As we were talking, part of our own family's story came up. I am the youngest of 7 children - Two brothers, followed by a sister, followed by three more brothers, and then me. The brother just older than me passed away at 14 months old in an accident in our driveway.
My parents have treated this trial in an amazing way. My mother, particularly has taught me the truths of the Plan of Salvation with total faith and no bitterness about/from that experience. As we talked the other night and I shared with her my favorite line from this hymn, I had an "ah-ha!" moment as I realized that the power of my mother's testimony to me throughout my life has come from knowing that she lost a child just two and a half years before I was born. She taught me closely and carefully and constantly about Jesus Christ and about how because of what He did we would be together with our Andrew again. Everything she has taught me throughout my life and her life has sunk so deeply into me because I knew she wasn't just saying it, and I knew that she didn't just know it-- she had lived it and experienced it. The Atonement had cleansed her of any chance for bitterness or anger and had made her heart soft to receive all the truth, love, faith, and learning that can come from such a profound experience. I saw in that moment just one of the many ways that the cloud of my brother's death was full of mercy. I knew that my mother's testimony was so solid and so true and so authentic because of this experience and because it happened just before I came into our family, it was fresh with her and so she was teaching me with all of her learning from this experience from day one of my mortal life. I know she had a stalwart testimony before that, but I am confident that one of the reasons her testimony has always been so real to me is because she carries no bitterness from that experience and because of how she has always used it as an opportunity to testify to me of God's truths. For me, that cloud broke with mercy and blessings.
I had so much peace and hope as I thought about our neighbors and how this trial for my family has been such a blessing in so many ways (for those who have chosen to look for the blessings in it). I knew that all would be well for them and that this trial, too, is a cloud full of mercy and will break in blessings on their heads.
I have hope that other clouds in my life are full of mercy and blessings which will be shown in the Lord's time...
- A continued struggle with anxiety and other health issues
- A difficult relationship with a family member
- A massive fear of having a bad marriage
These things often tear at me on an hourly basis, sometimes a momentary basis. However, my purpose of this post is to let you know that I believe in Jesus Christ. I believe in His Atonement. I believe in His healing. I believe in His ability to turn all things for our good. I believe that there is mercy in each of our trials and that though this life presents many challenges, that He equips us with all we need to get through it safely and with a whole heart. I have found most of the time, that we can be just about as whole as we want to be if we will turn to Him. I believe in His mercy, I believe that He is the silver lining in every cloud and that the opportunity to come closer to Him and to believe more deeply in His promises and His truths is how He offers us mercy through our trials. How I love Him and how I praise Him for all His goodness and love!
If you've read all this and have gotten to this point, I hope that you will reflect on the clouds in your life that may be offering you mercies which you have not yet claimed.
"God moves in a mysterious way, His wonders to perform. He plants his footsteps in the sea and rides upon the storm. Ye fearful saints, fresh courage take. The clouds ye so much dread are big with mercy and shall break in blessings on your head. His purposes will ripen fast, unfolding every hour. The bud may have a bitter taste, but sweet will be the flower."
Tuesday, April 9, 2013
When Things "Don't Work Out"
Lots of thoughts today. Some are random, some less random.
Today, I felt like nothing was "working out." Like my endeavors in things I've really wanted to do, wanted to do well in, or just plain wanted were all falling to pieces. Kind of a continuation of how I'd been feeling in my last post, but even more-so. I sat in a chair in the institute building at UVU today, mulling these things over in my mind, and feeling a little bit teary-eyed as I texted my mom to tell her about how I was feeling. I told her "I feel like the things I want to do and the things I want to work out haven't been for about the last 4 months.....or maybe the last 7 years." Then, as I thought about this feeling about how nothing was working out, I felt a gentle spiritual nudge from my Heavenly Father saying "What if, in fact, everything IS working out?" And right then, I knew that was the truth. Everything is working out, because it's going the Lord's way. He is guiding it all, so it is working out, even though the things that I base "working out" on aren't the same as what He bases it on. I have the utmost comfort at this, and the utmost reassurance about the course of my life. I am so grateful for that answer.
Shortly after that little pity party and special experience, I felt prompted to go see if a professor was in his office whose class I am still way behind in. I went and he was there. The main thing I have to make up is a test. We talked about my options for a few minutes and determined that I would just take the test next week, whenever I am ready (He is super nice). Then, he got up from his desk and walked across his office to a stack of tests and said "You know what, I'm just going to give you the test and you can work on it as you can. You can use the book and just do it as you have time." I almost cried. This is the toughest subject for me this semester and I have really struggled with the material. His kindness and letting me use the book will probably change the outcome of my grade in the class, not to mention I will actually be able to do it little pieces at a time, as I am ready. I felt so grateful, and felt so grateful to my Heavenly Father for showing me that things really are "working out." What a nice little man that professor is!
It has been raining for days! I kind of love it but not really. Yesterday I was thinking about THIS song and this movie scene all day long and wanted to re-enact if every time I was outside. Today on my drive home I was thinking about the phrase "Singing in the rain." I made a goal to sing in the rain more. It seemed applicable for my life lately. Even though it's been raining, I can still sing. And I can sing IN the rain. Ha, take that, rain! I can sing all I want, no matter what you do. Then, I thought of this song, and then the fact that I was thinking about all these songs about rain, made me think about this song, "Songs About Rain." I know...weird. What can I say, my brain connects everything.
I am at a restless point in my life. I need a change, an adventure, something. I just can't quite put my finger on what that might be. Maybe summer will help. My body sure wants summer.
If you don't know this about me, I love classical music, and all sorts of instrumental music. I've played the cello and the piano for years and I have fallen in love with so many pieces that I've been blessed to learn of over the years. Here are a few that I've been thinking about today/recently. If you're not a classical music buff, look these up! You just might like some of them. I LOVE music!!
-Peer Gynt Suite by Grieg
- Firebird Suite Finale by Stravinsky
-Unaccompanied Cello Suite by Bach
-The main theme of the movie "The Patriot" by John Williams
-The Trout Quintet by Schubert
-Intermezzo from Cavalleria Rusticana by Mascagni
- Beethoven's Symphony no. 5
-Rhapsody in Blue by George Gershwin
...And if you want some music for fun, check out these guys. :)
Today, I felt like nothing was "working out." Like my endeavors in things I've really wanted to do, wanted to do well in, or just plain wanted were all falling to pieces. Kind of a continuation of how I'd been feeling in my last post, but even more-so. I sat in a chair in the institute building at UVU today, mulling these things over in my mind, and feeling a little bit teary-eyed as I texted my mom to tell her about how I was feeling. I told her "I feel like the things I want to do and the things I want to work out haven't been for about the last 4 months.....or maybe the last 7 years." Then, as I thought about this feeling about how nothing was working out, I felt a gentle spiritual nudge from my Heavenly Father saying "What if, in fact, everything IS working out?" And right then, I knew that was the truth. Everything is working out, because it's going the Lord's way. He is guiding it all, so it is working out, even though the things that I base "working out" on aren't the same as what He bases it on. I have the utmost comfort at this, and the utmost reassurance about the course of my life. I am so grateful for that answer.
Shortly after that little pity party and special experience, I felt prompted to go see if a professor was in his office whose class I am still way behind in. I went and he was there. The main thing I have to make up is a test. We talked about my options for a few minutes and determined that I would just take the test next week, whenever I am ready (He is super nice). Then, he got up from his desk and walked across his office to a stack of tests and said "You know what, I'm just going to give you the test and you can work on it as you can. You can use the book and just do it as you have time." I almost cried. This is the toughest subject for me this semester and I have really struggled with the material. His kindness and letting me use the book will probably change the outcome of my grade in the class, not to mention I will actually be able to do it little pieces at a time, as I am ready. I felt so grateful, and felt so grateful to my Heavenly Father for showing me that things really are "working out." What a nice little man that professor is!
It has been raining for days! I kind of love it but not really. Yesterday I was thinking about THIS song and this movie scene all day long and wanted to re-enact if every time I was outside. Today on my drive home I was thinking about the phrase "Singing in the rain." I made a goal to sing in the rain more. It seemed applicable for my life lately. Even though it's been raining, I can still sing. And I can sing IN the rain. Ha, take that, rain! I can sing all I want, no matter what you do. Then, I thought of this song, and then the fact that I was thinking about all these songs about rain, made me think about this song, "Songs About Rain." I know...weird. What can I say, my brain connects everything.
I am at a restless point in my life. I need a change, an adventure, something. I just can't quite put my finger on what that might be. Maybe summer will help. My body sure wants summer.
If you don't know this about me, I love classical music, and all sorts of instrumental music. I've played the cello and the piano for years and I have fallen in love with so many pieces that I've been blessed to learn of over the years. Here are a few that I've been thinking about today/recently. If you're not a classical music buff, look these up! You just might like some of them. I LOVE music!!
-Peer Gynt Suite by Grieg
- Firebird Suite Finale by Stravinsky
-Unaccompanied Cello Suite by Bach
-The main theme of the movie "The Patriot" by John Williams
-The Trout Quintet by Schubert
-Intermezzo from Cavalleria Rusticana by Mascagni
- Beethoven's Symphony no. 5
-Rhapsody in Blue by George Gershwin
...And if you want some music for fun, check out these guys. :)
Saturday, April 6, 2013
Tender Mercies
Maybe I'm the only one who's had a crazy semester and an even crazier past month...but I doubt it. :)
For the past 5 weeks, I've had bronchitis and asthma: two things I've never dealt with before in my life. I've honestly never had a severe respiratory illness other than when I had RSV as a baby. This has been super scary and super painful! This semester had already been full of lots of annoying, inconvenient, and hard things. School-wise it's probably been my most wearing semester. I have always excelled in school. My lowest grade ever in my college career to date is a B+, earned in calculus last semester. I worked my tail off in that class and came out with only a B+. New feeling for me... I can usually get A's by doing the bare minimum. This semester, I feel like B's will be gifts in the majority of my classes. Haha. In short, I have always felt Heavenly Father's hand over my schoolwork. He has helped me pull through and do well even in the face of big challenges. This semester, there were so many little things that have just gone "wrong" where school is concerned. Then I got sick with this beast of a respiratory bug. I missed a week of school. (Please don't think I'm trying to complain. I didn't go to school for my whole senior year of high school because of health problems so I know a week isn't a big deal. I am just setting up the background for why this post is important.) More or less, for the past little while, I have felt a little like everything was falling apart. The breaks that usually seemed to come to help me with school, or health or other trials hadn't been around in quite some time. Peace hadn't been very abundant in my life. But.... sometimes it takes somewhat of a dark backdrop in our lives to be able to more clearly see the Lord's tender mercies to us.
For the past 5 weeks, I've had bronchitis and asthma: two things I've never dealt with before in my life. I've honestly never had a severe respiratory illness other than when I had RSV as a baby. This has been super scary and super painful! This semester had already been full of lots of annoying, inconvenient, and hard things. School-wise it's probably been my most wearing semester. I have always excelled in school. My lowest grade ever in my college career to date is a B+, earned in calculus last semester. I worked my tail off in that class and came out with only a B+. New feeling for me... I can usually get A's by doing the bare minimum. This semester, I feel like B's will be gifts in the majority of my classes. Haha. In short, I have always felt Heavenly Father's hand over my schoolwork. He has helped me pull through and do well even in the face of big challenges. This semester, there were so many little things that have just gone "wrong" where school is concerned. Then I got sick with this beast of a respiratory bug. I missed a week of school. (Please don't think I'm trying to complain. I didn't go to school for my whole senior year of high school because of health problems so I know a week isn't a big deal. I am just setting up the background for why this post is important.) More or less, for the past little while, I have felt a little like everything was falling apart. The breaks that usually seemed to come to help me with school, or health or other trials hadn't been around in quite some time. Peace hadn't been very abundant in my life. But.... sometimes it takes somewhat of a dark backdrop in our lives to be able to more clearly see the Lord's tender mercies to us.
- I have been so caught up in my life and have not given nearly enough to those around me lately. I apologize to those of you who deserve so much more from me. But here are some acts of kindness and tender mercies that have made the past couple of months more bearable for me. Thank you all for who you are in my life. I couldn't make it through without Christ-like friends.
- The first week I was sick, my home teachers (who had just barely been assigned to be my home teachers) brought me orange juice one night. It cheered my day.
- One day as I was looking for a parking spot at school, there was a car pulling out who I hadn't noticed, and there was another girl who had seen and I could tell was going to take the spot. I was just about to pull by when the girl gestured for me to take the spot and drove on. I recognized the girl as she drove by. She was in my class that was probably beginning in about 5 minutes...She needed the spot as much as I did, but she let me take it. It meant something to me that day.
- Somehow I was able to work out days to make presentations and take tests that I missed while I was sick. It seemed impossible and I still don't have all the work done, but my professors were able to make accommodations and I should be able to make up everything I need to. A topic for a presentation I needed to make came together quite quickly and in a way that was perfect for what is required in the presentation. It was one of the little things that "worked out" when everything else seemed like it wasn't.
- I went to the temple this week for the first time in a several weeks because of this illness. I saw a person in the temple who some time ago made some actions that disappointed me (and maybe hurt my tender spirit a little bit). The Spirit had given me a feeling a couple months ago that the Lord would show me some of this person's good works rather than letting me dwell on negatives. The Lord already had shown me some of the good works of this person and had allowed me to move forward from our interactions. However, when I walked into the temple and saw that person, I knew the Lord was still fulfilling that promise to me of bringing to light this person's goodness. I was overwhelmed with gratitude. My gratitude wasn't anything to do with the person though....It was all over the fact that Heavenly Father cared about me enough to carry out His promise, even when I didn't feel I needed it anymore. I had to be there at the exact time to see that person and I knew Heavenly Father had guided my day so that would happen. It reminded me that Heavenly Father cares about the small things in our lives...the small things that matter to us. He cares enough to minister to us in our biggest and our smallest of trials. Also while in the temple, the baptistry was very crowded and was standing room only at times. I was super tired from not getting much sleep the night before and after I had been standing for a several minutes, my lungs and legs were screaming to be able to sit down and rest. A lady and her daughter were in front of me. There was one spot left on the bench and they let me sit down rather than one of them taking it. It was so small, but exactly what I needed at that moment and I considered it a tender mercy.
- Sister Dalton's and Brother Stanley Ellis's talks in General Conference today.
- Last, because this is getting long, but certainly not because this is a comprehensive list of my blessings, Heavenly Father has brought people into my life over the course of the past many months who have blessed, strengthened, reminded, and guided me. Some have even had the amazing effect of bringing healing into my life, and of giving me confidence in my dreams which I had previously lost. I am so grateful for the amazing people Heavenly Father has blessed me with.
Kindness and prayer make my world turn round.
Happy Conference everyone!
Tuesday, February 5, 2013
Who Would You Share the Gospel With??
I LOVE SCHOOL!!!
I love my school. I love everything about the opportunities I have at my University, and especially the opportunities I have because of the LDS Institute there. The Lord worked hard to make sure that I ended up at UVU for my college education. As in He changed the course of my life so drastically my senior year of high school through a long-term illness, that UVU was literally my only option. I was bent on going to BYU, but I am now so grateful I was not able to choose that path. However, throughout my three years at UVU, there have been multiple times when I did not want to be there, and was bent on transferring to BYU as soon as possible. With the help of the Spirit, each time I've felt this way, I've been reassured that UVU was exactly where I needed to be and as more wonderful experiences came out of my being there, I was able to accept with more and more gratitude that this is where I ended up.
In the past week or so, the Lord has made me painfully aware that I will not be in this place of my life forever.....and especially that I will not be at UVU and the institute there forever. This has brought me some sadness to think about (not because I want to stay in this phase of life forever, but because I've come to love the place so much for all the experiences I've had here), but with this thought has also come a determination to make the best possible use of my time in this place. I suddenly have an increased desire to be involved in everything I possibly can. I want to seize all the opportunities I have not yet taken. As I was thinking about this tonight, I thought about the people who I've been impressed to somehow befriend or share the Gospel with who I've met in classes at UVU. I realized that I have not acted fully on many of those impressions, and I feel ashamed of that. The thought came "If for some reason, tomorrow was your last day to get to be a student at UVU, who would you share the Gospel with? What actions would you take in sharing the Gospel that you have so far been too afraid to take?" This question pierced the very center of my heart. There are actions I need to take to invite certain individuals to learn more of Christ. I know exactly who they are, and I am thankful to the Lord for telling me to stop being afraid and stop putting it off.
So.....Wherever you are: life, a job, a class, etc..... If you knew your time there was limited, what would you do, specifically, WHO WOULD YOU SHARE THE GOSPEL WITH??
(Sorry for so many blog posts lately. I am really not that into blogging, this is just a super convenient way to record some of the things that have been important for me to remember lately. Forgive me for so many posts recently.)
I love my school. I love everything about the opportunities I have at my University, and especially the opportunities I have because of the LDS Institute there. The Lord worked hard to make sure that I ended up at UVU for my college education. As in He changed the course of my life so drastically my senior year of high school through a long-term illness, that UVU was literally my only option. I was bent on going to BYU, but I am now so grateful I was not able to choose that path. However, throughout my three years at UVU, there have been multiple times when I did not want to be there, and was bent on transferring to BYU as soon as possible. With the help of the Spirit, each time I've felt this way, I've been reassured that UVU was exactly where I needed to be and as more wonderful experiences came out of my being there, I was able to accept with more and more gratitude that this is where I ended up.
In the past week or so, the Lord has made me painfully aware that I will not be in this place of my life forever.....and especially that I will not be at UVU and the institute there forever. This has brought me some sadness to think about (not because I want to stay in this phase of life forever, but because I've come to love the place so much for all the experiences I've had here), but with this thought has also come a determination to make the best possible use of my time in this place. I suddenly have an increased desire to be involved in everything I possibly can. I want to seize all the opportunities I have not yet taken. As I was thinking about this tonight, I thought about the people who I've been impressed to somehow befriend or share the Gospel with who I've met in classes at UVU. I realized that I have not acted fully on many of those impressions, and I feel ashamed of that. The thought came "If for some reason, tomorrow was your last day to get to be a student at UVU, who would you share the Gospel with? What actions would you take in sharing the Gospel that you have so far been too afraid to take?" This question pierced the very center of my heart. There are actions I need to take to invite certain individuals to learn more of Christ. I know exactly who they are, and I am thankful to the Lord for telling me to stop being afraid and stop putting it off.
So.....Wherever you are: life, a job, a class, etc..... If you knew your time there was limited, what would you do, specifically, WHO WOULD YOU SHARE THE GOSPEL WITH??
(Sorry for so many blog posts lately. I am really not that into blogging, this is just a super convenient way to record some of the things that have been important for me to remember lately. Forgive me for so many posts recently.)
Sunday, February 3, 2013
Just one more good boy....
Throughout my life I think I can honestly say that I have been blessed to be friends with some of the most special, spiritual, stand-up people to have ever lived in my generation. Seriously. Through those years, I have had the privilege of knowing some extremely good young men. They have been such a huge blessing and motivating factor in my life. I think I can honestly say that much of who I am today has been shaped by those good young men I've had the blessing of associating with. Two or three, in particular, have really helped me see a proper vision of who I am through the way they've treated me, and who I can become through the way their goodness has inspired me to be better.
The point of all that is to tell you that yesterday, I was on the receiving end of the example of one more good boy's example. I was in the temple doing baptisms for the dead. There were a couple young adult men helping with the ordinances who were not temple workers. Shortly after I got out to the font, one of them entered to be the baptizer. I do not know why this happened to me yesterday....I have been at the temple plenty of other days when young men have been there volunteering to help with ordinances, but yesterday, this young man's example literally pierced my heart. He emanated a spiritual joy that felt to reflect joy and gratitude at being in the temple. I had been having a little bit of a rough day and needed comfort and reassurance. For some reason, the fact that there was a boy who had chosen to be at the temple as a volunteer to baptize people on a Saturday afternoon and that he had such joy about it filled my heart and gave me so much comfort. I was comforted that there are people like that out there; I was essentially comforted by this person's goodness. I know that young man had no idea that the Lord was going to use his simple service to bless someone else's life in such a profound way. He was simply doing a good thing. In doing so, the Lord used his example to change my day and remind me of things I was doubting about people. (And no, that has nothing to do with dating, I promise.) I was so grateful for that person and that he was there, serving in the temple with such joy. He was just one more good boy - I don't even know his name - but his actions blessed me in a way that I do not think I can even put into words.
So, let me encourage each one of you....Keep doing the good things you do. You never know when Heavenly Father may use your example to deeply bless and answer the needs of someone else, even through actions that may not seem like a big deal to you. Being good really does make a difference.
Sunday, January 27, 2013
The Gentle Healer
A few thoughts...
"Gentle Healer" - Selah
This song has been one of my favorites for years. I recently found this version of it and I have listened to it probably 100 times in the past week. Not only do I love the music but I love the message of the song. I think of the woman with the issue of blood in the scriptures when I hear this song. Having had ongoing health problems for years, I can picture the despair of this woman who had spent all her living on physicians trying to find something to make her better and nothing did. Finally, when she literally had no other avenue of hope left, she was in a place where the true Healer was. Her faith in Him and in His power was so great that all she had to do was touch His clothes and she was healed. Her faith inspires me, but her hope in the true source of healing is even more tender to me. I have a testimony of Jesus Christ as the Gentle Healer in my life. Emphasis on the word gentle. I am learning more and more of His gentleness, His kindness and His intense care for every concern and difficulty we have. I am overwhelmed by the vastness of His love, evidenced in his atoning sacrifice. I am so so so so weak in so many ways and yet He is always there. His forgiveness, patience, mercy and grace are endless and how intensely grateful I feel for that. I know there is healing for all things in Him. His beckon call "Come unto me," is one of the most beautiful phrases I have ever heard. I think coming unto the Gentle Healer is the most beautiful experience that we are afforded in this life. It has certainly been the most beautiful experience of my life.
Heavenly Father speaks to us through the power of the Holy Ghost. Personal revelation is real. If we will seek the Lord, we will find him and he will tell us through the power of the Holy Ghost all things which we should do. He loves us that much! :)
Kindness is joy. There is nothing more thrilling to me than being kind. I am certainly not perfect at it, however, the opportunities presented to us each day to spread kindness, love and gratitude are really what keep me going. Knowing that there is an endless opportunity to do good and love others makes me feel of greater value and lets me know I can always be of service to the Lord. For more thoughts on how you can be an example of Jesus Christ and an influence for good, no matter where you are, check out this talk by Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, a special witness of Jesus Christ. Israel, Israel, God Is Calling
Finally, I love the temple. I am so grateful to be so near to such a holy place. Going there re-centers me on God's plan for the human family, and on his plan for me and my family, both present and future! I rejoice that families can be sealed together forever in holy temples. We are so so blessed. :) Happy Sunday, everyone. :)
"Gentle Healer" - Selah
This song has been one of my favorites for years. I recently found this version of it and I have listened to it probably 100 times in the past week. Not only do I love the music but I love the message of the song. I think of the woman with the issue of blood in the scriptures when I hear this song. Having had ongoing health problems for years, I can picture the despair of this woman who had spent all her living on physicians trying to find something to make her better and nothing did. Finally, when she literally had no other avenue of hope left, she was in a place where the true Healer was. Her faith in Him and in His power was so great that all she had to do was touch His clothes and she was healed. Her faith inspires me, but her hope in the true source of healing is even more tender to me. I have a testimony of Jesus Christ as the Gentle Healer in my life. Emphasis on the word gentle. I am learning more and more of His gentleness, His kindness and His intense care for every concern and difficulty we have. I am overwhelmed by the vastness of His love, evidenced in his atoning sacrifice. I am so so so so weak in so many ways and yet He is always there. His forgiveness, patience, mercy and grace are endless and how intensely grateful I feel for that. I know there is healing for all things in Him. His beckon call "Come unto me," is one of the most beautiful phrases I have ever heard. I think coming unto the Gentle Healer is the most beautiful experience that we are afforded in this life. It has certainly been the most beautiful experience of my life.
Heavenly Father speaks to us through the power of the Holy Ghost. Personal revelation is real. If we will seek the Lord, we will find him and he will tell us through the power of the Holy Ghost all things which we should do. He loves us that much! :)
Kindness is joy. There is nothing more thrilling to me than being kind. I am certainly not perfect at it, however, the opportunities presented to us each day to spread kindness, love and gratitude are really what keep me going. Knowing that there is an endless opportunity to do good and love others makes me feel of greater value and lets me know I can always be of service to the Lord. For more thoughts on how you can be an example of Jesus Christ and an influence for good, no matter where you are, check out this talk by Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, a special witness of Jesus Christ. Israel, Israel, God Is Calling
Finally, I love the temple. I am so grateful to be so near to such a holy place. Going there re-centers me on God's plan for the human family, and on his plan for me and my family, both present and future! I rejoice that families can be sealed together forever in holy temples. We are so so blessed. :) Happy Sunday, everyone. :)
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